It's a funny thing about being a student: you move a lot. In the last ten years, I've lived in eight different houses in three countries. But now I've lived here in Sheffield nearly three years, I'm finally starting to feel at home. I have a house, which deserves more cleaning than it gets. I have a garden. I have neighbours whose names I know, whose children are growing up before my eyes. I even have milk delivered to my doorstep. It feels strange, but it feels good to have somewhere to call home. And I'm not the only one for whom having a home is important. Listen to Catherine's story, one of the stories we will hear at the Poverty Hearing at the Broomhall Centre this coming Saturday.
I am a Tutsi from Ruanda educated in Tanzania. I fled to Kenya in 1999 with my 5 yr old son, pregnant with my daughter. Without Kenyan ID I could not work or maintain myself. In 2002 I came to the UK, and claimed asylum. I was put in a hostel in Clapham. There was one kitchen, toilet and bathroom for 10 families. Two months later I was put in a flat in a rough neighbourhood in Middlesbrough, and then endured two years of racial problems. After writing a letter of complaint to the Home Office I was eventually relocated in Sheffield in 2004, into a single bedroom house for 3 days before being placed into a 3 bedroom house. I was moved again in 2005 (to a 2 bed house) and then twice again in 2006.
Late in 2007 I was given permission to stay, and was moved out of the asylum system into a hostel. The next month seemed like a year, living in one room with two small children, with nowhere to play, in a hostel with 20 rooms housing families, singles, people on drugs, people fleeing from domestic violence. There was one kitchen, 2 toilets and bathrooms, but no laundry facilities. 5 years of belongings had to be put into a shed.
I wrote to the council, and on 4th January 2008 was given temporary accommodation in a Housing Association property, my ninth residence in the UK. I am now bidding for a council house and hoping that this 10th place will be permanent.
Imagine it - nine different places in six years; always having to pack up and move on; always hoping that this time it will be OK. Having a home is important.
Home would be important too for Simon and Andrew, James and John, the fishermen we meet in our reading this morning. They had their homes and their families, their work and their friends. They'd likely never left Capernaum in their lives. But when Jesus asked them, they left it all behind them, moving all over Galilee with him, only sometimes touching base at Capernaum. They weren't like me, travelling to train for something that would earn their living. They weren't like Catherine, travelling because their lives were in danger and they had to get out and start again somewhere strange where nobody knew them. Andrew and Simon, John and James left their homes and everything they knew because they wanted to follow Jesus, to get to know him better, to find out what on earth he could mean by fishing to catch people.
A lot of you will have left home and country, friends and family when you came to Sheffield. Last night at the Caledonian Burns supper I was among many people fondly remembering the home and the culture they had left behind.
I wonder, how did you feel when you first left your home to come to Sheffield: how long it took before you thought of Sheffield as your home, and if indeed it is home for you now, or whether you're still hoping to go back. Another change many here will be considering, or maybe trying not to think about, is the move we will have to make at some stage from living in our own home to living where someone else can take care of us. That, too, can be a stressful decision to make, and sometimes one beyond our control.
Yet while leaving home can be hard, all of us who have done it even once know that it's not the bricks and mortar - whether it's a house or a church - that's the most important thing to hang onto. It's what home means to us that we miss, whether it's history or security or our own space or relationships we value. Jesus' friends moved away from everything they'd known in order to keep in touch with him, because that new relationship was even more important to them than the life they knew. I wonder what is most important in our lives.