Unfortunately, Christians have
often disregarded the first story of
creation, in which women and men are equally made in God’s image, and have
focussed instead on Eve, the first woman, made out of Adam’s rib in the second story of creation. Eve’s creation
after Adam has two possible interpretations: either she is less important, or
she is the perfected human being, after God had a trial run with Adam. But either
way, traditionally she has been given the blame for the catastrophic act of human
disobedience known in Christian theology as the Fall.
Both Adam and Eve are told
by God not to eat the fruit from a particular tree. But the devil, in the form
of a serpent, persuades her to try a bite, after which she gives some to Adam. When
God calls them to account, Adam blames Eve and Eve blames the serpent. The
reptile is banished from God’s presence. But the human beings, as well as being
expelled from paradise, are given further punishment. Adam is cursed to hard
work; Eve to submission to her husband, and to pain in childbirth.
Because Adam and Eve are
described as ‘of one flesh’, Christians have often concluded that marriage is a
woman’s chief destiny. And though after Eve, other women in the Hebrew Bible have
their stories too, tales of heroic women, like Shiphrah and Puah, who fooled
the Egyptian king and save the lives of Hebrew babies, or like Deborah, who
judges her people, these are rare. Most women are mentioned as wives and
mothers: part of the ongoing family story of God’s people, whether they are
good, like Hagar and Sarah, wives of Abraham and mothers of Ishmael and Isaac,
or evil, like Athaliah, the wicked queen mother who killed almost all the other
claimants to the throne of Judah before coming to a bad end. Some women in the
Hebrew Bible go through horrific torture or death. But this is seen primarily
as damage of property rather than as loss of life, for in the regulations of
the Hebrew Bible women are less important than men. For example, it is laid
down in the Jewish law that only the husband is allowed to initiate divorce
proceedings. And if a woman is raped, she must marry her attacker without even
having recourse to divorce, presumably because no other man will want to take
on damaged goods.
So from the Hebrew Bible,
male Christians could argue that the bad state the world is in was a woman’s
fault, and that women, sources of weakness and temptation, should be treated as
their husbands’ possession, with few rights of their own. Of course, in Judaism
there were always husbands who honoured their wives and women who accomplished
great things – but so far the story doesn’t sound like great news for women. What,
then, of the New Testament? What were Jesus’ dealings with women?
Well, the woman Jesus first
knew well was, of course, his mother. And for Christians Mary is as famous for
virtue as Eve is for sin. But that doesn’t help women as much as one might
hope. For Mary is unique. Some Christians, particularly Catholics, believe not
only that she was a virgin when she conceived Jesus but also that she remained
a virgin for the rest of her life after he was born, and they look up to her
with very great respect indeed, giving her the name: Queen of heaven. Other
Christians find the details of this harder to accept, and see her as a poor
Jewish girl whom God honoured. But it is certainly true that no other woman
will ever be Jesus’ mother – so whatever people believe of Mary, that is not necessarily
a reason to treat other women with respect.
Of course, Jesus’ mother is
not the only woman called Mary whom Jesus knew. Two of the other famous Maries
in the Gospels are Mary from Magdala and Mary from
In these stories we have both
positive and negative pictures of women in Jesus’ life. Mary Magdalene was his
friend, but she had also been mentally ill, and some Christian men have argued
from such stories that women in general are emotionally unstable. Mary from
Bethany was his disciple, but in spite of what Jesus said, some men think women
should be cooking rather than thinking – the German phrase saying women should
be interested in ‘children, kitchen and church’ comes to mind.
As in the Hebrew Bible,
there are many women in the Gospel stories whose names we do not know, women
whom Jesus treated as human beings rather than sources of temptation. Let us
look at a few of them. When the religious leaders dragged before him a woman
caught committing adultery, who should, by the Jewish law, have been stoned to
death, Jesus invited whoever among them had never done anything wrong to throw
the first stone. When they had all refused and left, shamefaced, he did not
condemn her, though he did tell her to change her life.
Near the end of his life,
when a religious leader had invited Jesus to a meal but not welcomed him with the
traditional foot-washing, a prostitute came in, wept over Jesus’ feet and dried
them with her hair. The religious man believed Jesus could be no prophet to
allow that sort of woman to touch him; but Jesus said the love she showed
demonstrated that her sins were forgiven.
And when, as Christians
celebrate at Easter, God raised Jesus from death, it was women to whom he first
showed himself alive, even though by Jewish practice the testimony of two women
in court counted as much as the evidence of one man.
The first Christians
believed that there should be no distinction made between Jews and non-Jews, slaves
and free people, women and men. And many of the first Christians were women and
slaves, drawn to a religion where they were not despised for their status in
society. But it was not easy for these Christians to react against the cultural
expectations of their time. For example, in one letter to a church in
Later letters of the New
Testament go back to the subordination of women that was part of Roman culture,
directing that wives should always obey their husbands, as slaves obeyed their
masters. Ironically, though these parts of the letters get attention, the direction
that a husband should always love his wife and sacrifice himself for her good is
not so widely taught.
When Christianity first began,
Jesus’ disciples thought that the world would be ending very soon, so there was
not much attention given to the relationships between men and women – what was
the point of getting married, if God’s kingdom was about to come? So for the
first few centuries it was thought to be better for both women and men not to
marry, so that they could give their attention to God. In the middle of the
third century a Christian called Anthony wanted to concentrate on God and went
into the desert to live there. Other men joined him and became the first
Christian monks; women also, called nuns, made and led their own communities.
Because women were not allowed leadership roles in church or in society, being
a nun was actually a good career move. If you were married to Jesus you could
not also be married to a husband who would take your possessions and status for
his own.
In the Protestant
Reformation of the sixteenth century, people protested that the church,
including monks and nuns, had too much power. Martin Luther, one of the
founders of the Reformation, was originally a monk, but he decided that God
wanted him to marry. The Reformers laid a lot of stress on Christian marriage,
and on bringing up children in God’s ways, so there was pressure on Christian
women to marry young, to be obedient to their husbands, to have many children
and to make looking after their households their chief concern.
Within the household
teaching and practising religion was increasingly seen as the woman’s
responsibility; in churches, while men were ministers and studied theology, women
organised Sunday schools and the social side of church life, while those women
who needed a wider sphere of activity became missionaries, preachers and social
reformers.
Was this good or bad news
for women? On the one hand, churches were among the few areas of public life
where women’s skills and talents could be recognised and used. On the other
hand, the way their work with children, poor people or foreigners was often
sidelined was still unjust.
What is the position of
women in Christianity today? It varies a lot between different churches. My own
church, the United Reformed Church, first recognised women as ministers in the
1920s, whereas the Roman Catholic and Orthodox churches, supported by many
faithful women, still do not allow women to be church leaders. The Church of
England currently have women as priests, leading one church, but not bishops,
leading many churches – though this may change soon.
When it comes to local
congregations, if women decided to stop contributing, any of our churches would
grind to a halt. The difficulty many churches now have in finding volunteers
comes partly from the way women are now working outside the home and bringing
up children at the same time, leaving much less time free for voluntary
activities, including church work.
In the past, Christian women
have had an impossible burden to bear. We have been blamed for Eve’s sin, seen
as the source of sexual temptation in men and told to look to the Virgin Mary
as our model for virginity and motherhood at the same time – an impossible goal.
But Christian women are now reading the Bible themselves, and understanding it
through their own experience, rather than being told by men what it means. We
have rediscovered stories of women’s heroism and daring as well as valuing stories
of motherhood and family life. We have rediscovered the truth that Jesus took
women seriously as human beings who think and act and love, even though not all
his followers have done the same.
We have even rediscovered
the first creation story, which tells us that human beings, men and women, are both
made by God in God’s image, and are both made very good. And the rediscovery in
the Bible of feminine ways of describing God, who is beyond either male or
female, underlines the fact that women are called by God, just as men are
called, to many different tasks in life; and that women and men, Christian or
not, are both and equally worthy of dignity and respect.